Recently my family were out of town. For a month. I was solo. Now most of my friends and relatives kept fawning over me about how difficult it must have been being “alone”. Granted the first 2 days did feel odd. Coming home to an empty house. No one to greet me as the garage door opened. Or even first thing in the morning without the sound of the rest of the family’s morning groans of waking up. Eating alone. The list goes on. It felt eerily as if I was out of time. As if I was the only human left on the planet except it was in my own home.

I contemplated this deeply. I did not miss the family as I knew that each person was in the process of completing whatever they had set out to do. So why miss someone if they are fulfilling their missions. I was too. Catching up on writing, studying,reading, exercising etc. All the activities that I would love to do for myself. But there was more. After the first 2 days I did not feel the house was empty. Weird.

The reason I would surmise is actually rooted in quantum physics. Each of us generate an electromagnetic field. We charge everything we touch. Furniture, the air in the rooms, the tables, the chairs. Everything. Think of it like an auric imprint. When we leave and enough time has passed, the energy fields dissipate. So when the family was with me, their energetics filled the house along with mine. In their absence their residual frequencies dispersed away and my field has enough space to fill the whole house completely especially since I walked around to each room opening or closing blinds and windows. Being comfortable with my own aura and energy field, I was not “alone”.

I wonder if that is what we “miss” when a partner moves away or the children grow up and leave the home, or someone we cared about dies. It is the imprint of their EM field that we miss as it interacted with our own. Yet to become completely comfortable in one own’s field is the key. To be accustomed to our “skin”. It takes a lot of work to be able to be settled with being alone. This is not the same as being lonely, but can easily deteriorate to this lower frequency state when we are not able to clear our mindsets and judgments.

Being alone is not bad. It is the one true constant in life for in the beginning and end we arrived and leave alone. It is wise to be comfortable with the only one true friend that we have. OurSelf.

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